Posts in Self-care
What We Can Learn From The Blue Zones.

The other night, I started to watch the Docu-series about centenarians who live on the Blue Zones.

I watched several episodes and saw some similarities.

What do people who live a long life of vitality have common?

They eat high-quality nutritious food.

They eat whole foods, homemade food, not food with chemicals and additives.

They are active. They make their own food. They socialize with friends and family. They walk. They do active work outside from gardening to taking care of animals to horseback riding.

They spend a lot of time outside in the fresh air, sun, and in nature.

They do activities which are fun such as dancing, singing, playing an instrument, attending parties, and playing sports with friends.

They had hobbies. Hobbies that they have done for a long time.

They laugh a lot. They don’t take life seriously.

They do not stress. They relax. They are at peace.

They go to the beach. They enjoy time in nature. They live in warm climates.

They live in beautiful places in the world.

They feel that they have a purpose throughout their lives and their purpose is not tied to money or their career.

None of them were sedentary. None of them used walkers, canes or wheelchairs.

None of them lived in nursing homes.

Their families lived close by and engaged with them often.

None of them sat in front of the computer or TV all day. It didn’t seem that any of them even watched TV.


They were in the present. They didn’t live in the past or worried about the future.

Medications didn’t help them to live longer lives. In fact, most of them didn’t have health conditions or seem to take medications. The rates of heart disease, dementia, and diabetes were much lower in the Blue Zones.

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Natural Products For Pain, Relaxation & Better Sleep

Some of my favorite products are on sale.

I love Body Therapy, Calm, and Dream.

You can get early bird pricing for Black Friday now for Calm and Dream.

Dream is a gummy with 5 HTP and CBN. If you have been having trouble sleeping, you will get deep sleep. It is very effective and you can start with taking 1/4 gummy. Many people do not need a full gummy to get the benefits.

Calm is a natural tincture with hemp and herbs. You can take it day or night for anxiety or to ease your nervous system.

Body Therapy is a natural hemp salve for achy muscles and joints. It is very powerful for pain. It is non-greasy and smells great. It works fast.

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Movement And Play For Healing

Learn about fun ways to heal!

On Saturday, 11/18, watch Angie Berrett’s episode on play and movement for healing at 12 noon Eastern. Angie shares her story which lead her to discover play and movement to heal herself.

Angie Berrett is an Intuitive Movement Coach, Advanced Trauma Informed Yoga Instructor, Registered Nurse, and Stand-Up Paddleboard Yoga Instructor who understands the human body and how it works. She helps use play and movement to connect to their bodies, releasing stress, anxiety, depression and trauma. After going from child abuse survivor to registered nurse to yoga instructor, she has spent much of her life caring for others. Now, she helps others heal their pain, transforming their lives.

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Need Help For Anxiety Or Insomnia?

Lately, I have not been sleeping well.

I have been experiencing insomnia

Or

I have been sleeping well until the middle of the night.

Then my mind is wide awake

and I stay up thinking.

I wake up exhausted.

Finally, I decided to stop it.

I decided to take Dream before bed.

Dream is a gummy.

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Holistic Me TV Launches Today!

Today is the launch of my new TV show, Holistic Me TV!

We are having a virtual launch party!

We will be watching the first episode with Stephanie Dalfonzo.

Stephanie Dalfonzo is an Anxiety Expert, Integrative Hypnotist, Speaker and Author.

Traditional approaches to stress, anxiety, and sleep issues are no longer enough.

Because of her own struggles with anxiety and sleep issues, Stephanie has spent over 20 years researching anxiety and how it affects every part of our life. She has compiled 35 of the techniques in her book “Goodbye Anxiety, Hello Freedom.”

She is a resident of Danbury, CT.

Watch her episode live as we launch Holistic Me TV! A new show on YouTube to empower women around the world with their health and wellness.

7 PM Eastern.

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Holistic Me TV Launch. Why Not A Party Too?

I have created a new TV show. It is designed to empower women around the world with their health and wellness.

Holistic Me TV is a new TV show on YouTube, on my YouTube channel, Dancing Curtain. I am interviewing health experts from around the world.

Learn about ways to improve your health and wellness naturally.

Learn about various healing modalities.

Learn about resources. Empower yourself!

Watch the premiere live at 7 PM Eastern time on my YouTube channel, Dancing Curtain. It will be a little less than an hour. Join me live and comment with myself and others as you watch the first episode!

Subscribe to benefit from the whole series.

Click here to subscribe and receive email notifications when a new episode is released. Click on the Subscribe button on the page.

I will be watching from my television in my family room on Tuesday. Again, super excited!

You can watch from your smart phone, tablet, computer or TV.

And I have decided to give away a BIG prize!!!

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Who Is The Woman Behind The Dancing Curtain?

Recently, I had a conversation with someone who had been a client of mine many years ago. I quickly realized that she didn't understand what my focus was. She thought that I was only helping women with issues related to childbirth. This made me realize that there may be some confusion and with so many new people on my list, I thought this would be a good time to clarify who I am.

Who is the woman behind The Dancing Curtain?

I am a holistic health expert, writer, and speaker who advocates for women's health and wellness. With over 20 years as a researcher and over 18 years as a holistic health expert, I have empowered women to heal their chronic conditions, illnesses, and trauma using a holistic approach by deciphering the root cause, and treat using a mind/body/spirit approach, natural recommendations and the natural, sacred medicine of the Earth. My specialty is not only returning women to phenomenal health but to joy.

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The Best Healers Are Always Learning And Healing

“The best teachers are still learning, and the best healers are still healing.”

So true.

I see all of my clients as my teachers.

I am always learning something new from my guides.

I am always learning something new from my research.

I am always learning something new from books and my life experiences.

I will always be a student of life.

And I am always concentrating on my healing.

I heal myself through energy work, meditation, the foods I eat, and the supplements I take.

I heal myself by spending time in nature.

I heal myself through mindfulness.

I am like a hummingbird with a curious mind, a thirst for knowledge, and a desire to always seek the sweetness and pleasures in life.

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Too Tired To Smile

When I was sick with my 15-year illness, I was not the same person I am today.

Today, I smile easily and often.

The little things make me so happy.

I am so grateful for EVERYTHING.

But when I was sick with my chronic illness, I was too sick to smile or laugh.

They say that it takes more muscles to smile than it does to frown.

It’s true. It takes a lot less energy to be emotional-less.

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Set Your Intentions Now For A Great Season

Happy Summer! Sunday was the official beginning of summer in the northern hemisphere and the beginning of winter in the southern hemisphere. Did you set your intention?

With the change of seasons, it is important to take a pause and think about what you want to create this new season. It's not just on New Year's Day that we should set a new intention, but it's always important to reflect, re-prioritize, and set new goals. Some entrepreneurs and small businesses set quarterly goals and then after each quarter reassess and then create new ones. But you don't have to be an entrepreneur to set a goal for the summer.

What do you desire?

More fun?

More confidence?

More time for creativity?

More time for healing?

More time for self-care?

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From Humble Beginnings To A Confident Healer

When I first started doing healing sessions, I offered sessions in a small herb store in Ridgefield, CT which had an empty back room. I put an ad in the local paper with a coupon for first time clients and I received a call from a woman interested in my services. She had thyroid cancer and had recently lost her husband. She was grieving her husband’s passing and dealing with her cancer diagnosis and feeling very alone and depressed. She wanted help healing her cancer. She had heard about Reiki and how it benefited cancer patients and she was open to trying it. She was my very first client and I was nervous. I had my certification in Reiki and I had been studying shamanism for months or maybe it was a year, but this was my first paying customer. Did I have the ability to heal? I wondered. Could I help this woman? What if I couldn’t help this woman?

Thoughts swirled in my head of lack of confidence, but then I remembered what my Reiki Master who taught me said. She said, “You will never be given more than you can handle, especially with your first client. It is law. You will be given someone who you can help to show you, you have what it takes as a healer.”

I took her words to heart and met with this petite woman at the store.

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My Grandmother Celebrated Her Centennial Birthday

This weekend my family celebrated my grandmother’s 100th birthday. We celebrated all weekend. We had so much fun. Relatives drove up from the south. We spent hours opening up cards. She received presents, flowers, phone calls and ate so much delicious cake and good food.

My dad wrote a press release for my grandmother and submitted it our local paper, but even though, my dad submitted it a month ago and followed up with emails and calls and I reached out to the paper too, they didn’t respond back to either of us and didn’t include it in the paper this past week so I thought I would share it with you all here.

Alice Arrington, a resident of Ridgefield, CT for the past 10 years, celebrated her 100th birthday on Friday, May 7.

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Spread A Little Kindness To The Ones You Love And To Yourself

Hi Everyone!

Today is National Random Acts of Kindness Day which is part of Random Acts of Kindness Week which runs until February 20.

What can you today to share your kindness with someone?

  • Can you write a letter or email someone you care about, someone who made a big impact in your life, and them know how much you love them or the difference they made in your life?

  • Can you volunteer to help someone in need?

  • Can you perform a random act of kindness with a stranger or a loved one?

  • Can you give something to someone else?

  • Can you offer your time with someone? An ear? Or a hand?

What will you decide to do?

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Fill Up Your Heart With Self-Love

Hi Everyone!

I was inspired to create a self-love series.

I used to dread Valentine’s Day. I used to feel bad that I was not in a romantic relationship. I used to feel sad on that day. But just like we can set goals and intentions every day, we don’t have to wait until New Years; we can fill ourselves up with love every day, we don’t have to wait for someone to love us. So last year I filled myself up with so much love. I meditated. I spent time outside in my hammock and going for walks. I exercised. I read. I took baths. I listened to inspirational podcasts. I studied numerology and astrology. I did shadow work. I wrote gratitude lists and I healed myself.


Last Friday, I started Fill Up Your Heart: Self-Love Series on Facebook. I decided to broadcast it on my business FB page, The Dancing Curtain and in my private FB group for empaths and creatives who wish to live an extraordinary life. Click here to join the private group. The series has just begun! I wanted to start it before Valentine’s Day to help support those who are single or broken-hearted but it continues until February 26. I wanted to make the series long enough so that people really felt that their hearts are filled up with love. Watch the replays on the pages and invite a friend.

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The Best Gifts Of All Are The Ones That Make You Feel Good

When I was sick with my chronic illness, I didn't have the knowledge I have today. It was through trial and error that I learned the importance of not only choosing the right supplements, but high quality supplements. It was through time and research that I Iearned that what we put on our bodies is as important as what we put in our bodies. Our body is the largest organ we have and it absorbs everything we put on our skin. Everything we put on our bodies and in our bodies and around our bodies contributes to either good health or poor health.

I have so much empathy for those who are struggling with a chronic illness. I know that they often don't have the energy to research and understand what is best for them.

But I do know that if you purchase gifts for your loved ones that help them to feel good, they will treasure those gifts for a long time and appreciate you.

Here are some of my favorites:

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How To Stay Inspired When You’re Not

It's almost time for Thanksgiving. Are you excited? Thanksgiving will not be the same this year. Many of us will not be with our complete families. Many of us have lost loved ones this year. Many of us have lost jobs or revenue. Many of us are feeling scared and uncertain about the future. Many of us have been working hard all year and need a break and have lost our vigor to keep going or to be motivated or inspired.

If that is you, you are not alone. I was feeling that way recently. I lost my vigor and I am normally a very optimistic and ambitious person. But sometimes life gets overwhelming or we don't see the fruits of all of our work; we just see the obstacles and more to do. We wonder why we work so hard. Isn't life supposed to be joyful?

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Overwhelm. What To Do?

It seems that everyone who I have been connecting with lately is feeling overwhelm. Are you feeling overwhelm? It seems to be something we are not experiencing individually, but collectively right now. It’s no surprise with everything that has been going on the last few months: the Coranavirus pandemic (the fear of becoming sick, the fear of our loved ones becoming sick, the isolation and not having the help systems we have relied on, job loss/financial loss, losing loved ones to the virus), all of the corruption and racism that has been appearing in the news, all of the scandals etc. What can we do to feel better and release this overwhelm?

Yesterday, in my private Facebook Group, Empowered Joyful Empaths, I discussed this topic and let everyone know that they are not alone if they are feeling overwhelm. I also provided some coping skills to help at this time.

Try these coping skills. Pick the ones that are best for you. You do not need to practice all of them.

  1. Meditate

  2. Spend time alone in nature

  3. Consciously slow down

  4. Take something off your to do list

  5. De-clutter

  6. Breathe deeply

  7. Delegate

  8. Prioritize. Does everything need to be done today?

  9. Rest/Nap

  10. Have fun

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